When individuals can no longer perform basic tasks—eating, dressing, bathing—they often lose the capacity for independence.
For much of human history, death was a familiar, domestic occurrence. Today, however, it has become a highly medicalised experience. Modern medicine often treats aging and terminal illness as problems to be "solved" rather than stages of life to be navigated. Gawande argues that while science has succeeded in extending human life, it has largely failed in its mission to ensure those extra days are meaningful. Being Mortal
Through examples like the "Eden Alternative," Gawande shows that introducing elements of life—such as plants, pets, and children—into care facilities can dramatically improve well-being. The goal should not be to simply keep someone safe, but to allow them to remain "the writers of their own story". Being Mortal: Chapter Two - NephJC When individuals can no longer perform basic tasks—eating,